It's me again. I had posted a thread title 'Understanding Woman's Brain' earlier.
And then again at:
So apparently, this girl (currently married but planning to get separated) and I are dating for 2 months or so. Now here's the situation:
Last week, my other friend Q (who originally introduced me to this new gal P) told me that she loves me dearly and she can not accept the fact that we can not be together. [There are different reasons for that] That is why she doesn't want me in her life anymore. As Q is my very dear friend, I was upset that she doesn't want to talk with me anymore. So I was not my usual self for almost a week. [My new girlfriend P was on business trip.] She not only failed to realize that there is something wrong with me, when she met me, she saw this behavior and demanded that she will go to her apartment by limo. [I was picking her up at at the airport.] So then I told her that I was upset about my friend Q and more to the fact that person I like and a person whom I am thinking as my life partner doesn't care about what state I am in. Then she says Sorry and all and on our drive back she suggests that she wants to go to Connecticut to see her friend who is getting married
! I get pissed that she knows that I am not having good time and I need her company, but instead of spending time with me, she suggests that she wants to go see her friend. I tell her to do whatever she likes.
On a side note, I feel that she is still hung up on her previous boyfriend/on-paper husband.
I don't know what I should do. Should I call this quit? Does a girl ever recover from their first love [even though they are having fight as of now?]? Any experiences?