Awesome new word: frot
And quite possibly the best site on the internet about frot.
Are you a man who wants to have a sexual relationship with another man but are turned off by the feminization involved in anal-sex and high-risk of disease? Well, it turns out this is just a sick fetish and not at all at the core of what real MAN/MAN love is all about.
Frot is hot, dude. Check it out, bro:
I'm laughing hysterically but also curious (about how accepted this belief is in gay community). I know there are men who identify as gay but aren't interested in anal penetration, but I'm not sure if they identify with this whole culture or not.
April 25th, 2007 12:04am
Why is anal sex "feminizing"? It is just another sex act that may/may not bring pleasure to the participants.
I will never ever understand the hang-ups people have about sex.
Tops put it in the ass. Bottoms take it in the ass.
Gay men that are tops look straight and you probably can't tell right off the bat. About 33% identify this way.
The bottoms trip the gaydar miles away. They're fruity and flamboyant and "womanly". Another 33% identify this way.
The remaining 33% is split. There are men who will assume both roles (sometimes both at once, sometimes on separate nights with separate costume to go with it). Some men don't do anal at all.
Don't blame me, I'm just stating the facts.
April 25th, 2007 12:14am
Heh. I've actually cuddled, hung out, and slept with gay men.
Not one could explain how, specifically, it is "feminine" to have sex in the butt.
It just "is". And it is stupid.
Penis in butt = surrendering to penis
Surrendering to penis = feminine
Feminine = being girl-like
Law of modus ponens says:
Penis in butt = being girl-like
Seems simple enough to me.
April 25th, 2007 12:35am
Is it feminine to have sex with a woman's butt? or is it "gay?"
April 25th, 2007 12:35am
I heard a woman say once that she thought her first husband was a queer because he liked doing her in the butt all the time.
April 25th, 2007 12:38am
April 25th, 2007 1:22am
Repost Dildo, we did frottage and its history last month.
April 25th, 2007 1:47am
I think it was Jorge Luis Borges who described the Argentinian Gauchos, how they were so macho that they considered dancing with women effeminate. So they had no choice but to tango with men...
April 25th, 2007 3:33am
April 25th, 2007 4:12am
"I heard a woman say once that she thought her first husband was a queer because he liked doing her in the butt all the time."
Ah, well. There had to be a Law and Order episode about this subject, and yes, there really is. L&O Criminal Intent had a criminal who borked his girl in the butt and would never do missionary in the punani because he had a power trip thing. He could only experience pleasure when he took it from her without giving back.
Makes me all hot just thinking about it.