http://www.correntewire.com/vitters_madame_most_of_the_clients_who_wanted_to_be_dominated_were_republicans (via reddit) Vitter's Madame: "Most of the clients who wanted to be dominated were Republicans."

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Why would these fully paid up Republicans confuse torture with sex? Because they’re authoritarians. To them, there is no confusion: Sex, pain, abuse, humiliation are all the same thing. They get off on it. (Strap the dog on top of the car, and let it crap itself for a few hundred miles. Same mentality exactly.)
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Yet they don't have authority over their own selves. That's a good place to start. Maybe they should talk to Buddha instead of Jesus.

And they sure don't know the meaning of 'withdrawal' either.

OP is confused about the why's and whims of dominance sex play.