http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/heightweight.shtml

Most of the people in these pictures on the higher end of the scale don't look that "obese" or are they?

http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/601-380.shtml

Ok, she is pushing it.

She is 200,

http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/510-200.shtml

OK, the 385 lb girl is a lot less fat looking than you would think given that SHE IS NEARLY 400 POUNDS HOLY SHIT. But, she is more than 6 feet tall, so that changes things a lot. I saw a woman about 300 lb who was short the other day and she was real unhealthy and undesirable looking.

The 200 lb girl I am surprised. She doesn't look 200 lbs either, she looks about average.

What is wrong with me.

Interesting site.

http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/504-260.shtml

She has a bmi of 44

At least she is smiling.

I guess it's true about wearing black, it must be part of the effect. She looks normal above the waist, looks like she is hiding some wide hips, but she's not obese looking, just a bit fat on the hips.

This is about where I am at:

http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/601-180.shtml

This guy is at 200, taller and looks like he has more fat in various areas.

http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/603-200.shtml

Both look normal.

http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/510-190.shtml

that's pretty much me if I changed my look. (I wouldn't do the hoody thing ..)

You people are obsessed.

What can you DO?  Can you leap tall buildings in a single bound?  Can you do a split?  Can you skateboard without falling on your ass?  Can you rollerblade?  Can you climb a rock wall?  Can you bench your weight?  Can you do more than 10 pushups?

The focus on looks is all wrong.  If you can do the above, you will automatically be better-looking than people who can't.

> What can you DO? 

Being arm candy is the sought after can-do. Didn't you know.

So your self-esteem is tied to how thin your date is?

oookay.

not mine, no. more likely to be tied into her sense of sarcasm/humor though (and if one thinks the "can-do/candy" pun is funny).