can I tell you
just how exhausting lots of sex is? my HUSBAND says he's starting to get tired.
Are you on top, or is he?
July 19th, 2007 10:29am
Fine, rub it in. Wish it was a problem I had right now.
July 19th, 2007 10:56am
if you're both tired, you ARE doing it right.
as with any new cardio regime, performance improves explosively in the first few weeks.
Now, 'trying to get pregnant', I warned you about this. Don't over-do it. If you do, you'll get tired, you won't enjoy it as much, and his sperm count will drop -- you don't want that.
Take a day off to rest from time to time.
You're not married, are you Kenny?
Because, hard as it may be to believe, once a guy has had about three orgasms in one day, he does lose his interest in sex for awhile. Some days, one really energetic bout will do it. This doesn't mean he's "bored", it means he's satisfied.
I'd hate for you to become completely sexually satisfied, conclude you're bored, and end a valuable relationship. Apparently people do this everyday, and I think it's a huge mistake.
July 19th, 2007 12:10pm
He'll be away this weekend so we will definitely get a break. I think the basic problem is the length and irregularity of my cycles, and the fact that we're normally once-or-twice-a-week people, not every-day or even every-other-day.
ha. It's not just him, I'm tired too. Normal women would have tested for pregnancy by this point in their cycle (day 38). I'm pretty sure I'm at least two weeks from the end of the cycle, maybe more, can't tell for sure.
Just have sex and stop trying to calculate when you should do it, etc.
Unless you've already experienced fertility problems, don't treat it as a project, for god's sake. This should be a natural process.
AG, with me EVERYTHING is a project.
And besides, if we leave it up to nature it could take years. I only get 6-8 cycles a year.
purple: "Honey, we are going to have sex at 11:30PM. Please be ready and don't masturbate beforehand!"
purple's husband: "Okay."
July 19th, 2007 1:38pm
"And here, look at my boobies for 15 minutes or so, to get your sperm count up. There ya go."
LOL. How does just looking at boobs improve sperm count?
July 19th, 2007 1:44pm
lol, it's a bit more spontaneous than that. and more than once a day is unusual, so I don't think sperm count is an issue.
Periodic, "unrequieted" arousal tends to get the man's juices prepared for flowing, so to speak. At least, that's my experience.