Animals are DELICIOUS.

yet another crazy girlfriend question.

like Mat Hall, i have a girlfriend who is always accusing me of lies and infidelity. unlike Mat, I've never crashed over at some blonde 22 year old's when I was drunk. I'm just a quiet nerdly person who reads books and programs computers.

Every three weeks or so. I get this business:

1. so how many girls have you slept with???
the answer is pretty low. can count on one hand.

2. how many girls have you dated???
again. not very many. can count on two hands. (i'm a nerd)

I tell her. the truth. every time. yet. she comes back and asks again and again. and says that "deceit and lies" are ruining our relationship. I have no idea what her problem is. I'm getting pretty sick of it. Once was bad enough, but every three weeks is a nightmare.

I'm pretty sure this relationship is doomed. however I'm interested if anyone could shed any insight as to what is going on in my girlfriend's head. my theories are:

1. she doesn't like our relationship, but I haven't really done anything "bad" so she doesn't have any reason to end it, other than boredom. she doesn't want to seem shallow and just dump me because she is bored, so she's desperately trying to make me look bad so she has a reason to dump me.
2. SHE has done some weird stuff in the past and is projecting it onto me
3. she is just plain crazy

should I bring up any of the above to her? or am *I* just crazy?
Permalink o_O 
January 10th, 2006
What I can't understand is why anyone in these situations needs advice.

Philo
Permalink Mark Warner 
January 10th, 2006
she *desperately* needs a good shag.

if you dont give it to her soon, she'll find someone who will.
Permalink Jesus H Christ 
January 10th, 2006
Oops, you found an error!