A guy gets married to his sweetheart, and immediately she starts packing on the pounds. Pretty soon this athletic, svelte young adult has turned into a 240lb couch potato.
Is the man a monster if he has a problem with this? Is he a monster if he encourages her to lose weight, or if he shows disapproval as she shovels back a bowl of ice cream or asks for a double serving?
(No, this isn't a personal story. My wife has actually lost weight since we go married, for her own reasons, however I'm curious about some answers given some other threads. This thread could equally apply to a wife watching her husband let it go)